About two months ago, I finally admitted to myself that something was going on and I needed some help. I was experiencing all of the classic symptoms of ED: I was struggling to achieve an erection, I could barely hang onto the ones I got, and I was getting more and more frustrated just by the idea of sex.

To say that my confidence in the bedroom was shot would be an understatement. My confidence was fully 404: error, not found. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. Do not attempt to get frisky with your partner because that can only lead to a bad time. 

I was genuinely worried about what this was doing to me and my relationship. So, I bit the bullet and tried Hello Cake’s ED Meds.

Getting the meds was painless (seriously, it was so easy to talk to a doctor), but that’s not what I’m here to talk about. The most important thing for me has been the changes that I’ve felt in the months since starting them. Because for the first time in a long time, I’m feeling like myself again. And I felt like I had to share my experience in case anyone else is finding themself in the same spot.

TL;DR: Cake’s ED Meds have helped get me out of a nasty self-confidence downward spiral. While the first time using them was incredibly helpful, persistent use is what’s brought back my confidence in and out of the bedroom. Plus, if you order today, you can get them for 20% off your with code: PRIMARY20!

Day 1

The day my meds arrived, I was nervous. Nervous they wouldn’t work. Nervous they’d work and I’d still feel like crap. Nervous they’d work too well and I’d get hard in embarrassing situations. 

Basically, I was a bundle of nerves. So, I decided to try them solo first. These ED meds are supposed to kick in in as little as 15 minutes, so I found myself watching the clock and waiting for my guy to essentially… sproing up, and feeling stressed that it didn’t. 

Thankfully, it turns out that that’s not how ED meds work to begin with. You still need a little “stimulation,” if you will. Around the 20 minute mark, I started giving the ol’ pickle a tickle and before I knew it, I was flying at full mast! 

I was so over the moon that I called my partner into the room to see me do the helicopter. And once both picked ourselves back up off the floor from laughing, we ran back to the bedroom for the best round of sex we’d had in ages.

Once we were done, I had a bit of an epiphany. I realized that I’d been so in my head about my performance (or lack thereof) that sex itself had stopped being fun for me and had slowly and insidiously become a source of anxiety. With a dose of ED meds in me, I was able to lose the stress around losing my erection and suddenly sex was fun again!

Week 1

I spent this entire week feeling like a hormone-fueled teenager, and my partner and I took full advantage of it to make up for lost time. The whole week, I could really feel my confidence start creeping back up to where it used to be. My partner and I were engaging in the more “adventurous” things that I had almost unconsciously taken off the table before. It was amazing to be able to please each other without my insecurities getting in the way.

Plus, I discovered an unexpected bonus: morning wood! Cake’s ED Meds are actually a compound formula that combines Sildenafil (the ingredient in Viagra) for fast action with Tadalafil (the ingredient in Cialis) for long lasting effects, which means that they last for up to 36 hours.

Waking up with a boner was honestly unexpected, but there was something about it that just helped me feel like myself again. It was one of those weird things that had pretty much disappeared without me even noticing or thinking about it, but once it was back, I was excited to be annoyed by it. 

Month 1

Somewhere around week 3 or 4 I realized that if there were awards for masturbation, I was probably on course to win one. Back when I first started struggling with ED and my confidence levels were taking a hit and erections were getting harder to maintain, I initially started masturbating more frequently. 

In a way, I think it was a sort of coping mechanism, a way of ensuring myself that the plumbing still technically worked. But eventually, I started feeling guilty about that, too. If I couldn’t have sex with the person I loved, did I even deserve to be masturbating? And before I knew it, I had pretty much stopped masturbating entirely, which led to even more frustration when I couldn’t get it up with my partner. 

The whole thing turned into a vicious cycle of guilt and shame and self-flagellation (but not the good kind). Cake’s ED Meds helped me break free from that cycle and reminded me that, damn it, I do deserve some self-love. Plus, they helped cut down on my refractory period, so that a solo session didn’t mean I was tapped out for the rest of the day.